Thank you for your question, Minh :)

Here are my suggestions:
1. Learn to enjoy your work more. I believe if our work recharges us, we seldom need to recharge else where. Jack Welch, the ex-CEO of General Electric says is well - "when you find the right job, you've retired." You may be in the right job but you may need to explore how to truly begin enjoying it.

2. Define your priorities that will lead you to the life you want. Dividing time equally between different areas of life was very frustrating for me until I learned to take my priorities seriously. If work and entertainment are equally important, it becomes a difficult decision to make every time. However, if we decide entertainment/relaxing comes after work, then it can become a good reward after a productive day at work.

Finally, get mentors who have achieved the kind of life and balance you desire. Ask them how they do it on a daily basis. Hope this helps :)